The signs I wish I'd seen, and the songs that took me along the way Christine, 19, Canada

do ur squats
eat ur vegetables
wear red lipstick
dont let boys be mean to u


is that all boys care about? trying to find a girl who is stick thin, caked in makeup, who wears revealing clothes so everything is on show? what happened to finding a girl with a personality and morals?

Honestly how can anyone think that in this day and age? All it takes is one look around you to see that this is not the truth. Is your mother stick thin and caked with makeup? Chances are no, but your dad chose her. You probably have a friend who isn’t any of those things and boys still like her or she’s in a relationship. You probably know stick thin girls who aren’t in relationships.
People stop saying that boys are superficial and into shallow looks… Who’s to say that those girls aren’t worth liking just for their personalities? If you think boys only see these girls for their looks then it’s actually you who only sees them for their looks. Then to say that because of how they look or dress they don’t have morals is completely outrageous. And who’s to say that boys are only into appearances? If you really think about it you’ll find that what you said is completely untrue.


I wish boobs did the bra thing without having to wear the bra